Moment and Eternity: Dedicated to the Wonderful Family Time


Read­ing these three pic­ture books fea­tur­ing bear Sam, a child of Amy Hurst and Ani­ta Jielang, will delight chil­dren and adults alike. While pre­sent­ed as fairy tales, the sto­ries are actu­al­ly about every­day par­ent-child moments, cen­tered sole­ly on the rela­tion­ship between Sam and his moth­er.

The first book, “Good­night, Kiss,” (first pub­lished in 2001), tells the sto­ry of a com­mon bed­time rit­u­al: Lit­tle Bear Sam, it’s time for bed, but he keeps say­ing he’s not ready yet and is still wait­ing, but he won’t say what he’s wait­ing for. Moth­er Bear, whether gen­uine­ly con­fused or just pre­tend­ing, reads her a bed­time sto­ry, tucks her in, tucks Sam’s stuffed friends in, and gives him some warm milk. But Sam still refus­es to sleep, anx­ious­ly say­ing, “You know what I’m doing.” Moth­er Bear thinks and thinks, and final­ly remem­bers…
The sec­ond book, “Sam, Are You Feel­ing Sick?” (first pub­lished in 2002), deals with a rather unusu­al yet com­mon sit­u­a­tion: a sick baby who refus­es to take med­i­cine! Just before bed, on a cold night on qui­et May Street, Sam, hav­ing com­plet­ed his bed­time rit­u­al, sud­den­ly devel­ops a cough. His moth­er must give him syrup before he can fall asleep, but the clever lit­tle Sam always finds excus­es to refuse. What to do? After sev­er­al attempts, his patient and resource­ful moth­er final­ly comes up with a solu­tion. Final­ly, they cud­dle by the fire, wait­ing togeth­er…
The third book, “Sam, You Can Do It” (first pub­lished in 2003), tells the sto­ry of a snowy morn­ing on May Street, where lit­tle Sam and his moth­er bake and deliv­er cakes to their neigh­bors. The most inter­est­ing part of the sto­ry is that his moth­er parks her car on the road out­side the neigh­bors’ homes, leav­ing Sam to walk through the deep snow alone to deliv­er the cakes, one by one, to their doorsteps (as sur­pris­es). Sam suc­ceeds! In the end, he dis­cov­ers two cakes left—surprises for his moth­er and him­self!


Despite being three sim­ple sto­ries, the cre­ative process took three years. Set in a qui­et, small-town neigh­bor­hood called May Street, the sto­ries unfold dur­ing the grad­u­al­ly cool­ing autumn and win­ter sea­sons. From dark, windswept nights scat­ter­ing fall­en leaves to chilly nights about to see the first snow­fall, and final­ly to morn­ings thick with snow, the author seems to be hint­ing at a cer­tain chrono­log­i­cal pro­gres­sion. Lit­tle Sam tru­ly grows over the three books, from his dai­ly demands for kiss­es (the promise of love), to his courage sparked by minor ill­ness­es, to his enthu­si­as­tic par­tic­i­pa­tion in and inde­pen­dent com­ple­tion of appro­pri­ate com­mu­ni­ty tasks—readers of all ages will sure­ly exclaim, “Well, Sam has grown up!” Yet, the nar­ra­tive is clev­er­ly repet­i­tive, main­tain­ing a sim­i­lar struc­ture and rhythm amidst the changes. For exam­ple, the sto­ry always begins on May Street and then moves to Sam’s home. After sev­er­al repeat­ed, pro­gres­sive inter­ac­tions, it inevitably returns to the embrace of moth­er and child, before return­ing to the May Street exte­ri­or. Start­ing from the sec­ond book, at the end of the sto­ry, Moth­er Bear tells Sam the sto­ry of “Lit­tle Bear Called Sam”. This inti­mate review game is not only full of the promise of love, but also con­tains appre­ci­a­tion and affir­ma­tion that makes chil­dren par­tic­u­lar­ly proud.


The ded­i­ca­tions in these three books are par­tic­u­lar­ly note­wor­thy; they all involve “Sam,” with phras­es like “You know why (ded­i­cat­ed to you)” or “To Sam and Kate and those warm, cozy evenings.” Or, “To Sam. Remem­ber the day we walked through the deep snow on Broad­way?” This Sam is author Amy Hurst’s son, and Kate is her daugh­ter. The sto­ries of Bear Sam are large­ly based on mem­o­ries of grow­ing up with her son Sam. Amy was already over 50 when she wrote these books, and her son Sam was already an adult.


Born in 1950, Amy is a promi­nent con­tem­po­rary Amer­i­can chil­dren’s book writer, writ­ing both pic­ture books and chil­dren’s nov­els. Her works have won numer­ous awards, the most notable of which is the 1997 Green­away Medal for “Ride the Waves,” which tells the sto­ry of Jesse, an East­ern Euro­pean Jew­ish girl who immi­grates to the Unit­ed States. Although the Green­away Medal was pri­mar­i­ly award­ed to illus­tra­tor P.J. Lynch, the sto­ry’s res­o­nant and cap­ti­vat­ing impact on read­ers is undoubt­ed­ly due to the author’s con­tri­bu­tions. Amy is adept at focus­ing on fam­i­ly rela­tion­ships through the lens of every­day life. An Amer­i­can chil­dren’s book crit­ic’s over­all assess­ment of her work is: “She has pro­duced a sig­nif­i­cant body of work that reflects a child­hood per­spec­tive on fam­i­ly, pre­sent­ing uni­ver­sal truths from the con­crete details of life.”


Amy is a writer who places a spe­cial empha­sis on obser­va­tion and accu­mu­la­tion. She describes her method of gath­er­ing mate­r­i­al as “detec­tive work,” con­stant­ly curi­ous­ly “pry­ing” into oth­ers’ secrets, often mere­ly the triv­i­al­i­ties of life. These three sto­ries about Sam the Bear clear­ly stem from her explo­rations of her own life with her chil­dren. She did­n’t write them down when her son was young, but years lat­er, when he had grown up, she could­n’t help but revis­it those won­der­ful times togeth­er. Each scene from the past is a fleet­ing moment, but for this eye­wit­ness and “author detec­tive,” they are indeli­ble, endur­ing, and heart­warm­ing mem­o­ries.
Coin­ci­den­tal­ly, the illus­tra­tor for this book is also a moth­er of three, Ani­ta Jeron from the UK. Does that name ring a bell? Yes, she’s the illus­tra­tor of the super-best­selling “Guess How Much I Love You.” How­ev­er, read­ers might find the illus­tra­tion style of this book a bit strange: it seems com­plete­ly dif­fer­ent! A clos­er look reveals that the ges­tures and expres­sions of the lit­tle bear inter­act­ing with his moth­er and with the lit­tle and big rab­bits share a com­mon thread, but the paint­ing tech­niques of the two books are indeed quite dif­fer­ent. “Guess How Much I Love You” uses soft water­col­ors for a more tran­quil and roman­tic feel, while the sto­ries of lit­tle bear Sam are paint­ed with rich acrylic paint, giv­ing them a touch of oil paint­ing. While still ele­gant, the brush­strokes are bold­er and more rugged, con­vey­ing a stronger and more pas­sion­ate sense of emo­tion.


Ani­ta, born in 1965, loved draw­ing and ani­mals from a young age. Unsure of her future career, she tried var­i­ous jobs, includ­ing work­ing in a tal­cum pow­der and pota­to chip fac­to­ry, as a shop assis­tant, and as a dog keep­er at a ken­nel. Encour­aged by her hus­band, a pale­on­tol­o­gist, she enrolled in uni­ver­si­ty to study illus­tra­tion. Unex­pect­ed­ly, before grad­u­a­tion, she was dis­cov­ered by the renowned Walk­er Book Com­pa­ny and embarked on a career in chil­dren’s book illus­tra­tion. The unex­pect­ed suc­cess of “Guess How Much I Love You” brought her immense fame and gen­er­ous roy­al­ties, but it did­n’t go to her head. She con­tin­ued to explore new pos­si­bil­i­ties, includ­ing explor­ing new paths in illus­tra­tion and expand­ing into design. She declined per­son­al work and main­tained a relaxed pace, ded­i­cat­ing her­self to enjoy­ing a peace­ful fam­i­ly life. Today, the fam­i­ly lives in a semi-seclud­ed state in North­ern Ire­land.


Ani­ta’s illus­tra­tions are the per­fect fit to illus­trate the fam­i­ly val­ues embod­ied in the sto­ries of Lit­tle Sam Bear. Ani­ta and Amy share a deeply sym­pa­thet­ic under­stand­ing of fam­i­ly, and both moth­ers deeply rel­ish the del­i­cate yet play­ful aspects of par­ent-child life. A care­ful exam­i­na­tion of the details in the text and illus­tra­tions reveals that Moth­er Bear plays games with Lit­tle Sam almost con­stant­ly. Kiss­ing him good­night is a game, teas­ing him to take his med­i­cine is anoth­er, and tak­ing him out to sur­prise the neigh­bors (and ulti­mate­ly him­self) is also a game. These three seem­ing­ly every­day, sim­ple sto­ries are sur­pris­ing­ly engag­ing to read because they’re all about play­ing games. Just imag­ine, if our dai­ly inter­ac­tions with our chil­dren were char­ac­ter­ized by games, with min­i­mal lec­tures, would­n’t our chil­dren’s devel­op­ment be more suc­cess­ful, and would our dai­ly lives be more enjoy­able?


As a moth­er of three, Ani­ta under­stands chil­dren well. Per­haps even hav­ing her own chil­dren, she delights in bury­ing play­ful details with­in the illus­trat­ed world. Beyond the cen­tral sto­ry­line that runs through all three books, there’s a play­ful lit­tle fox, some­times chas­ing leaves, some­times play­ing with snow­balls, some­times seem­ing­ly build­ing a snow­man, and some­times even befriend­ing birds and mice. The lit­tle mouse scur­ry­ing around the room in “Good­night, Kiss” reminds me of the mouse in “Good­night, Moon.” Both mice have their own sto­ries, don’t they? What role does this lit­tle mouse, who also appears through­out all three books, play in the sto­ry?


Regard­ing details like these in the pic­tures, it’s rec­om­mend­ed not to active­ly point them out to chil­dren dur­ing par­ent-child read­ing. Adults can read more slow­ly, turn­ing the pages a bit slow­er, and chil­dren will like­ly quick­ly dis­cov­er them. Once they’ve dis­cov­ered and enjoyed their sur­prise, ask them about “The Sto­ry of the Lit­tle Fox” or “The Sto­ry of the Lit­tle Mouse.” They’ll undoubt­ed­ly be able to cre­ate sto­ries just as engag­ing as Sam the Bear’s… This, of course, is the heart­felt hope of both the author and the illus­tra­tor.
 

Writ­ten in Bei­jing on Sep­tem­ber 4, 2020