{"id":1270,"date":"2010-04-15T14:46:35","date_gmt":"2010-04-15T06:46:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ajia.site\/blog\/2010\/04\/15\/yi_nian_ji_20100415\/"},"modified":"2010-04-15T14:46:35","modified_gmt":"2010-04-15T06:46:35","slug":"yi_nian_ji_20100415","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ajia.site\/blog\/en\/2010\/04\/15\/yi_nian_ji_20100415\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cFirst graders\u201d are not human beings! \u2014Con\u00adtin\u00adu\u00ading the dis\u00adcus\u00adsion with Yangyang\u2019s father"},"content":{"rendered":"

   
\nCon\u00adtin\u00adu\u00ading from the pre\u00advi\u00adous one:Dis\u00adcussing with Yangyang\u2019s father the strate\u00adgies for first graders to pass the pinyin test and oth\u00ader top\u00adics<\/a>
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\nCon\u00adtin\u00adu\u00ading from the pre\u00advi\u00adous two:Con\u00adtin\u00adue to dis\u00adcuss par\u00adent\u00ading strate\u00adgies with Yangyang\u2019s dad: read\u00ading, ask\u00ading ques\u00adtions, rewards, hap\u00adpi\u00adness, etc\u2026<\/a>
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\nYangyang\u2019s father:
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\nHel\u00adlo, Teacher Ajia: I would like you to rec\u00adom\u00admend a few more books suit\u00adable for first grade chil\u00addren, prefer\u00adably with pinyin. I have always want\u00aded my son to fall in love with books, but con\u00adtrary to my wish\u00ades, he just does\u00adn\u2019t like to read. I have thought of many ways to accom\u00adpa\u00adny him.
\nLook, he only likes to be told and lis\u00adtened to, but has no inter\u00adest when asked to read on his own. He does\u00adn\u2019t have any favorite books to read. This semes\u00adter, the teacher said he has regressed a lot. He does\u00adn\u2019t con\u00adcen\u00adtrate in class and is slow to do things. I don\u2019t know now.
\nHow should I edu\u00adcate him? It\u2019s a headache. Please give me some advice. The teacher asked him to write a diary every day, but he doesn\u2019t have the heart to write it. It\u2019s very dif\u00adfi\u00adcult to write every time. In fact, I feel that he still reads too few books. How can I make him love read\u00ading? This is my biggest prob\u00adlem now.
\nWhat a headache. Thanks!
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\nYangyang\u2019s good father, after many exchanges, I deeply appre\u00adci\u00adate your good inten\u00adtions for Yangyang. As a father myself, I am very moved. So this time my words may be a lit\u00adtle harsh, and if there are any inap\u00adpro\u00adpri\u00adate words, please for\u00adgive me.
\nBe more under\u00adstand\u00ading!
\n   
\nYou asked me to rec\u00adom\u00admend a few more books suit\u00adable for first graders, but I find it dif\u00adfi\u00adcult to do so. Why? Because books are meant for peo\u00adple, and first graders aren\u2019t peo\u00adple, so I can\u2019t rec\u00adom\u00admend any.
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\nWhat is a \u201cfirst grad\u00ader\u201d? A con\u00adcept! Just a con\u00adcept.
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\nYangyang\u2019s dear father, I real\u00adly hope you will say to me: \u201cPlease rec\u00adom\u00admend a few more inter\u00adest\u00ading books to our Yangyang. He is such an inno\u00adcent and love\u00adly child. He has recent\u00adly become obsessed with\u2026 and he likes\u2026 the most. As soon as he picks up\u2026
\nHe was most delight\u00aded when he read\u2026 with me. He even said\u2026 and I had\u00adn\u2019t noticed a few things he read\u2026 He\u2019s such an admirable kid!
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\nHow\u00adev\u00ader, from your descrip\u00adtion, Yangyang is more like a \u201cstu\u00adpid first grad\u00ader\u201d. In gen\u00ader\u00adal, \u201che does\u00adn\u2019t con\u00adcen\u00adtrate in class and is slow to do things\u201d, \u201che has no inter\u00adest in read\u00ading by him\u00adself\u201d, \u201che does\u00adn\u2019t par\u00adtic\u00adu\u00adlar\u00adly like to read\u201d.
\n\u201cI\u2019ve regressed a lot this semes\u00adter\u201d, \u201cI can\u2019t pay atten\u00adtion in class, I like to be dis\u00adtract\u00aded and make small move\u00adments\u201d, \u201cPinyin feels very dif\u00adfi\u00adcult\u201d\u2026 These ran\u00addom and gen\u00ader\u00adal descrip\u00adtions are just con\u00adcepts! They are not describ\u00ading
\nA liv\u00ading child!
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\nWhen I read the book \u201cMy Dad is John\u00adny\u201d, I could not help but smile every time when I read the lit\u00adtle boy Dim proud\u00adly intro\u00adduced him\u00adself to oth\u00aders: This is my dad, his name is John\u00adny. But the most touch\u00ading part for me was the scene where the dad hugged his son.
\nHe picked up lit\u00adtle Dim and intro\u00adduced him to every\u00adone in the train car: \u201cWould you please lis\u00adten? \u2026 This child is my son. The best son, his name is Dim!\u201d Every time I read this, my eyes can\u2019t help but get wet. I am typ\u00ading now.
\nI have the same feel\u00ading when I read these words.
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\nMr. Lu Xun said: Chil\u00addren can be respect\u00aded. I think when he said this, he must have regard\u00aded the word \u201cchil\u00addren\u201d as peo\u00adple. If it is just a con\u00adcept, like \u201cfirst grade chil\u00addren\u201d or \u201cfirst grade stu\u00adpid chil\u00addren\u201d,
\nHow can we respect him then?
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\nIn tra\u00addi\u00adtion\u00adal edu\u00adca\u00adtion\u00adal con\u00adcepts, chil\u00addren are often mea\u00adsured with cold rulers. Chil\u00addren who meet or even exceed the stan\u00addards are con\u00adsid\u00adered \u201cgood chil\u00addren\u201d, while those who fail to meet the stan\u00addards are con\u00adsid\u00adered \u201cstu\u00adpid chil\u00addren\u201d.
\nWe can\u2019t do any\u00adthing about the ruler in the short term (I believe it will change slow\u00adly), but as a father who loves his child, we can help the child not to be scared by the ruler, and to be hap\u00adpy and at ease.
\nWe can grow up con\u00adfi\u00addent\u00adly and con\u00adfi\u00addent\u00adly. This is some\u00adthing that every ordi\u00adnary per\u00adson can do, because at home, we are the cap\u00adtain!
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\nIt\u2019s actu\u00adal\u00adly not dif\u00adfi\u00adcult to do this. Bor\u00adrow\u00ading Mr. Lu Xun\u2019s per\u00adspec\u00adtive, look at your own chil\u00addren with respect, and use the heart of that good father, Jiao Ni, to say, \u201cThis is my son, the best son, his name is Yangyang!\u201d
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\nHow could our own chil\u00addren not be the best?
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\nI\u2019d like to rec\u00adom\u00admend the book \u201cThe Best Son Yangyang\u201d for you, but I\u2019d like to know what kind of child he is. As for \u201cFirst Grade Kids,\u201d I real\u00adly can\u2019t rec\u00adom\u00admend it.<\/p>\n

Argen\u00adtine Primera Divisi\u00f3n April 15, 2010<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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